Fading Memories
As I do at the end of each year, I think back over it and count my blessings. For some reason this year, I'm also reminiscing about past chapters... one from 35 years ago. I was living in another foreign land, this time as a young army wife. Cyprus was my home for two years, it was there I welcomed my first Bubba into the world and where I learnt sunshine and blue skies made me smile. I explored this new home & way of life with vigour. A place in time where I know there were some happy memories, and so many more that are not! However, despite the unhappiness of past decisions and relationship, I would not go back and change a thing...... If only I could remember those fading happier memories!
That past chapter helped create the story of my
life, a rich book of experiences that have helped shape me into the person I am
today. Strongly bound and standing tall on the 'Estante' of life. But now, those memories have grown so faint, like the text on a page left exposed to the sun rays. I
can barely remember anything. No matter how hard I try.
Out of curiosity, I turned to the internet until
2am, in the attempt to find footage of that era. Something that was familiar
that I could grab hold off. Limassol, Episkopi, Akrotiri, Coral Bay, Lefkara.... places
that should be engrained into my memory. But despite digging deep, and watching for hours, I just
couldn't source something vaguely familiar, despite some pretty grainy and
boring footage. It made me quite sad. The transformation of those areas is astounding. So modern, vibrant, and utterly different from the places I knew. It’s amazing
how time changes not only places, but also our own recollections of them.
Back in the late 80s and early 90s, capturing
memories was very different. We didn’t have smartphones or social media
uploads. We only had VHS tapes and 35mm cameras. (I've just suddenly recalled putting letters in airmail, and the occasional phone
call to family from a public telephone box!) Looking back, I wish I had taken
more photos, written down more stories, and captured more of the little things.
So, here’s my advice as we move into another New
Year: Take lots of photos of what you do and where you live. One day, you’ll
wish you had. Because when your memories fade, photos and captured stories will
keep the past alive. And something you can hand down to your children.
Remember.... life can change fast. Even the most
ordinary moments can become extraordinary over time
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