My journey and me

Who am I?

I am Tracey, a tall gal with a big heart. Originally from Croydon, I moved as a teenager to enjoy Southern England, where I seemed to move at warp speed to finally becoming a happy wife, mother and grandmother living in gorgeous Spain since 2019. From the earliest of years until I met my husband I collected a lot of 'negativity' through serious school bullying; failed marriages (yep, plural, dont judge); workplace harrassment; anxiety; self doubt.... to name just a few. To combat all that negativity I read books and watched videos about positivity and as a result I've become a spiriturally minded woman. I now surround myself with positive people because I have a strong belief that "Like Attracts Like". I made a conscious effort to only mix with positive people; follow positive social media accounts; watch and read things that help feed that positivity and life is getting better and better because of it. I'm on a journey of discovery of therapies; gratitude; manifestation; happiness and wellbeing. During my journey I'm sharing what #FeedsMySoul

To begin, begin! ~ William Wordsworth

For the year of 2014 I was a Trustee for The Sara Lee Trust, where my complementary therapy journey started. Their support for people affected by cancer and other life threatening illnesses through the provision of free psychological and therapeutic support is phenomenal. I was honoured to have been a trustee for a year and instrumental in starting their website and social media journey. Soon after, one of my long-term clients was in need of a receptionist, they offered therapies, Yoga, Pilates and Physiotherapy I had a strong urge to join their calm environment for a day a week and jumped at the opportunity to work with them. It taught me that an office environment can be a calm nuturing place!

It might take a year, it might take a day, but what's meant to be, will always find it's way!

I loved assisting people through my sole trader business, helping them with their social media and online marketing. But from 2015 as a direct result of the enjoyment I felt being around calm and positive people, my technology business started to focus within complementary fields, a collective that reached out to help others. It felt a lot more satisfying for me. These people were an inspiration to me, so at the end of 2017 with a new future in mind, I began a distance learning course in Anatomy and Physiology so that I could learn hand reflexology and provide it as a service. However, the course proved to be very difficult to learn whilst working 45-60 hour weeks, I couldn't retaining the information because I wasn't using it on a day to day level. I gave myself a hard time, stressing out with trying to be perfect at it, that in the end I decided the time just wasn't right for me.Maybe I will pick that up in the future?

The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams

In 2019 my husband and I embarked on a new life in Spain in a quest to tip the balance back in our favour rather than working seriously long hours just to pay the bills. After seeing so many cancer battles and sadly deaths, that destroy our friends and family, it was time to make a change. We wanted to make the most of the life that we have..and to do it whilst we still could. Our kids had grown and flown, so it was now time to focus on a new life for just the two of us. I left my now adult kids, my family, my friends, closed my business, moved away from all the things I knew, loved and were a comfort to me. I had to change from a fiercely independent woman in control of every aspect of my life to driving 1,500miles into a life that was full of unknowns and apprehension. My husbands dream to live abroad, what we had worked so hard for, what we had been so patient for, was now our reality!

Check out my personal blogs to see how that is going